What’s wrong with being nice? I simply can’t understand why being nice is regarded a weakness. It might as well be a strength! Come to think of it,it’s common to keep close to nice people. With many guys around a nice person it’s easier for his network to grow. It’s upon him to make out the most out of these numbers. Secret is being careful enough to have boundaries. Many may argue that you can’t be nice and have boundaries at the same time. There is where many go wrong. Every single person has to have boundaries. Same reason even the ‘bad guys'(i believe no one is a bad guy) have a soft spot for things or people. I’ll let you think over this…
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I agree with you wholeheartedly. Being kind is never a weakness and you can be kind and set boundaries at the same time.
However, there are people who take your kindness for weakness and will try to take advantage. And when you’re so “nice” that you give at your own expense, let people walk all over you, and never set boundaries, people will take advantage. Great post! 💖
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